I didn't disappear

my stbx is in town to visit the kids and is staying with us. It is so weird because he hasn't lived with us in 17 months and things have changed...I have changed:-) I thought this would be a good thing so he could see us as a family without him but what has happened so far is I have seen I don't ever want to go back. I love my life now with God as the head of our household. I don't need him like he told me for so many years. We really are fine without him:-) I really AM happy!


Happy Anniversary

Just a little walk down memory lane
This is 18yrs ago TODAY
I was 20 and he was 19
We thought we would be together forever.....at least I hoped we would because I said till death do us part and I meant it...we also said forsaking all others but that is another story
17 years ago when my braces came off and I cut the BIG hair...we still look like babies:-)
This is us now.....

Only he is in Florida and I am in Oklahoma and the divorce will be final in February....big dreams died for me and today is just a reminder of that:**(



It's weather!!
Oh my gosh stop everything and take over the TV to show all the white stuff. I am cranky today so I will try to be nice but how many ways can you show the weather? Since I have been in Oklahoma I have seen them put down shovels, hats, upside down unbrellas to collect snow..they have scraped the ground, the cars, the railings and anything they can get their cameras near... I have seen people roll chairs and cameras outside to show you how quickly the snow/sleet can accumulate. I have seen weathermens eyes roll back in their heads while they described the snowflake that was frozen in the piece of ice that just fell on their jacket...can you get a close up Bob because THIS IS AMAZING stuff??!!...Today I saw a shirt on a hanger that they froze along with a VHS tape to the top of a car. What for?? And didn't we already have ICE STORM 2007? Should this be 2007 part B or 2007 part B subtopic A number 1? I really think my friend and I had the best idea last year when we discussed this...if you haven't read it you MUST because she is funny!!
Even my oldest got up and looked at the tv and said "we get it! there is white stuff on the ground! do we have to listen to this all day? I mean if I wanted to be a meterologist I might care BUT I DON'T".....oh it is going to be a LONG few days because THIS IS ONLY ROUND ONE OF TWO STORM SYSTEMS!!! TWO PEOPLE!!! Ok I think I need to find some chocolate:-P


I saw this at Robin's and since I have nothing to say I thought I would do a quiz:-) Hope everyone is enjoying December. I can't believe how FAST this year has gone!


- 2 teaspoons of sensitivity
- a heaping teaspoon of charisma
- a gallon of humor

Combine all stirring until smooth.
'What is your personality recipe?' at QuizGalaxy.com