I didn't disappear

my stbx is in town to visit the kids and is staying with us. It is so weird because he hasn't lived with us in 17 months and things have changed...I have changed:-) I thought this would be a good thing so he could see us as a family without him but what has happened so far is I have seen I don't ever want to go back. I love my life now with God as the head of our household. I don't need him like he told me for so many years. We really are fine without him:-) I really AM happy!